D13 didn't tell H what she saw, only me. She tells me all of the time that she can't talk to him the way she can talk to me. Any suggestions on how to tell him about this? Every time I have had something to say in the past that might hurt her or about his drinking (which he didn't do until now) he gets very defensive and screams! So I texted him the last time something happened and he still blew up.
I don't know how to word it so he doesn't blow his stack, and I do want to tell him to please watch what she sees.
