Sorry you are going through this with the pressures of a baby on the way, that must make it really tough. If you don't regret telling your h that you love him, i don't think that is an awful thing. I don't for a second believe as LBS that our WA's don't know that we love them. What they need to realize is be that as it may , we can still live without them and succeed.
Going dark is difficult but very necessary. This has made my WAW take notice and planted doubt in her head. I'm still not even close to recon. but she has mentioned that she doesn't know if she is doing the right thing from two months ago when she said " Close all doors and through away the key". Now when we talk , she wants to make sure that the "doors are open" if she is making the wrong move. Some see it as cake eating and it may be to some extent but I see it as a very confused women having a little bit of an awakening.
You may be in this for the long haul but i think that what you are doing protecting your finances is also very wise.
Best of luck to you.
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