My wife left 1 year ago and filed for divorce, I see her on a regular basis because we have a 9 year old together and we attend the same church.
I talked to her about trying to save our marriage and she said she was worried it would go back to being the way it was before, this is the 3rd time she left, when she left before things would get better for awhile but the fights would start again.
I have learned quite a bit now, but she still is worried it will go back to the way it was before.
This is the second mariage for both of us, we have a 9 year old and we have been married 11 years.
I asked her about counseling and she said probably not.
I asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner and she said she didn't know, I asked her if that meant NO, she said it meant she didn't know.
saturday morning when I was meeting her to drop off our daughter we ended up having breakfast together and it was nice to be toghether for a short time, not sure if I am reading too much into it, but it seems like she had a good time too.
Just not sure how to get her interested in counseling or spending time with her, I have tried not talking to her, but that doesn't help, I think we need to communicate if things are going to get better.
