Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I have finally noticed a baby step from W.
Along with the email stating she would take time off of work so I could take my annual fishing trip, she actully talk to me for more than 5 minutes when she dropped the kids off on Saturday.

I think she even made eye contact! She used to look at the floor when she spoke to me before.

dburt, I noticed your post on mza8 thread.
You said your W was going to IC to fix herself.

My W is seeing an IC but she(the IC) told her that since these actions( Our R) have going on for X amount of years, things wouldn't change.

I feel like she is getting bad advice from her IC. Yet anotherr challenge for me.

You wrote: One day she said, "I can really start to see you and I together in the future." That was the first time she saw us together in her mind in a really long time she said. Then, we started to go to MC (I was finally invited in, big deal at the time), then after a couple of months of that, I asked if we had an MC appointment, and she said, "nah, I cancelled it, we're good."

How long did this take for her to say this to you?
Did she say wnat changed her mind?

I am waiting patiently for her heart to soften.