Hey, got a question for anyone who would like to comment.

Things are still going along nicely. Of course, there's still concerns of mine, like anyone that has gone through this, but there's this one thing that's bugging me.

I've discovered that W has been checking out Facebook on a fairly regular basis. I'm her only "friend" on FB, but last weekend I checked and OM has signed up and there are multiple pictures of him, his kids and his new W on there.

Of course the burnt LBS in me thinks she's checking out his pictures and "longing" for him. There's another part of me that thinks she's just checking to see if the kids are up to no good. But then the suspicious part of me thinks she isn't even "friends" with the kids on FB, so what could she be looking at there?

I guess this all gets back to the feelings of there being something going on behind my back and I don't like it.

I know, I know, just continue to be the person I've been that busted the D. But what scares me is if she's still looking at that stuff and "longing" for the A feelings, that eventually she'll begin to "look" for those A feelings again with someone else.

I know I shouldn't mind read, but I'm wondering if I wouldn't be more comfortable if I had her password for FB? Not that I'd check it on a regular basis, but just for the piece of mind.

Let me know what you think.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.