Sorry to ask again but is there a difference between an MLC and a nervous breakdown?
I am not really an expert on nervous breakdowns but I would think there is not much difference. Depression can be very hard to see. It can be called "Masked Depression" which appears on the outside to be perfectly normal. But inside they are in complete chaos. Like TG said they then self medicate. I completely agree that your H is probably scared to death of being a father and becoming a "grown up" That would be part of a MLC. He is still acting like a teenager. He is 40 years old. A prime candidate for this.
