Well the s%&t hit the fan yesterday. We went to a BBQ with mutual friends and H got roaring drunk in front of everyone and their children (including our child) and was vomiting out in the yard (they didn't even let him in the house after that). He left us sitting at the BBQ so he can call and text the OW. Our friends were asking me why he was spending so much time on the phone, so I let it all spill. It was actually good for me because all our mutual friends were appalled by his behavior. One of them suggested dropping his drunk a$$ off at his mothers house and not even letting him in my house last night, so that's what I did (and they helped me). It also gave me a good opportunity to clue his mother and family in to whats going on. NO ONE is happy with him right now.
I also happened to find out from our friends that H has been messaging them telling them I hate them, don't like hanging out with them, etc, I guess in hopes that he can turn off their friendship with me. Well, that backfired big time also.
Not sure where to go from here. H hasn't managed to get home from his mothers house yet so I'm sure he's still sleeping off his drunk.
I am so mad at him right now I could spit nails. Getting sloppy drunk in front of our child (and our friends kids) is a HUGE no. Spending the afternoon out with his family talking to OW - HUGE no!
