SA, They were in his dresser drawer so now I don't know whether to think she was snooping or he did have her helping him. I can't imagine him having her put his underwear away but you never know now the way he is acting. A friend of mine said he might have put them in there so she would come home and tell me. They weren't open. But you are right, and I plan on telling him about it but can anyone help me word it. I plan on texting him.
When I saw him he looked like I look, except he has gained a lot of weight (from the drinking I guess) where I lost a lot of weight. He had dark circles under his eyes like I do from not getting sleep. And our D13 says he still isn't himself. He goes from getting mad to sad to happy.
How long have you been in your sitch? You seem so strong and it doesn't look like you've been here long. But then again I was better at 8 months then I am now. I fear the longer it is the worse and harder it is to get him to come out of this.
As far as the dating thing goes with my H. He feels he is single since we separated. His step-mother helped him out with that one. She is the one who set up a facebook account for him and everything.
