Those busted later, MAY OR MAY NOT be hard to bust, depending on how things are going in paradise between the affair couple, but the withdrawal period is going to be longer.
That wasn't my experience and my H had an 18 month A. I guess every sitch is different.
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I'm really happy to hear your entire family has been so supportive -- that is truly a blessing!
Entire family appeared supportive - though I did have a few problems with an IL who thought that as my H had cheated perhaps I might like to get my own back by having a 'romp or two' with him!!!!, (that was my H's, sister's H)- getting myself away from him was difficult a time or two . Friends were really supportive too which was an enormous help - they had all been so shocked when I 'outed' what H had been up to!!! I/we were very lucky with our support network. No-one really tried to intefere in a negative way; no-one ever said that we were wrong to fight for our M or that we should split.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
. Friends were really supportive too which was an enormous help - they had all been so shocked when I 'outed' what H had been up to!!! I/we were very lucky with our support network. No-one really tried to intefere in a negative way; no-one ever said that we were wrong to fight for our M or that we should split. 
