It does not matter what she thinks of me, as I have always made decisions baesed on what she might think and do, but I do want to appear strong and decisive.
Mark,
If this were true, you would have no problem opening the envelope. You're still way enmeshed.
There's no crime in that, but it would probably help you to be able to accurately gauge just where you are along the "detachment" path right now.
