Good question. I never pushed for any R or M talks. I might wait for her to bring it up. You'll have plenty to talk about during IC session without having the conversation.

What is it you need to hear? Why do you need to have the conversation. Also I wouldn't bring it up beforehand. If she brings it up too soon for you, just tell her that. Tell her you'd like to put the conversation off until you get settled back in.

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