I don't know. How would describe nervous breakdown? You may not have known he was depressed. Actions are the real key here. Affairs are drug to self medicate what's happening inside. Sometimes it's vanity or lack of commitment, or just plain irresponsibility. If there is no remorse or it is termed as justified or in your case the dreaded ILYBNILWYA it means H and M are in crisis. Get ready for the rollercoaster.

If you get on this ride it will make you sick. It's not so important IMO that you know whether it's a nervous breakdown or MLC only that you're hoping it's Nerv B. MLC is tough.

Take care of YOU. You can't fix H's sitch until he wants to fix it. Take care of YOU and the answers will come. The only person YOU can control is YOU.

I have a bagful of YOU for YOU!

Stay strong little mama...

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am