I do a great job with doing acts of service (my LL).
Understand that your wife's LL must not be acts of service if that is the way you are expressing it. If she were to do acts of service for you, that would be filling your "love bucket". Most women do not have a LL of touch IMHO.
However I am sure I could get hit with some 2x4's by some of the women here for saying that!
Looking at the bright side you have 1 down and 4 to go!
Experiment and monitor results(DB rule).
I have an advantage that I got my W to read the book and take the test.
