WAW and the law of attraction

[chatterbug]

Questions about audience.

1. Should I do this in a public or private place?
2. If I reply today, would it be too soon? (she contacted me Saturday)
3. What would be the main objective of this? Her telling it all? The truth?
4. How to respond to this situations:

- "I didn't know how to tell you and you've made this really easy. I love him."
- "Why did you have to involve my family? You're treating me as a little girl! I'm an adult"
- "Actually he already left the wife and kids and is coming next weekend with me. My family knows this."
- " Just accept this is over, even if I drop this guy, I'm never going to go back with you after what you've done"

-"I don't know what to do, I do have feelings for him but never meant to hurt you. I'm confused . I know what I'm doing is wrong but can't help it. I love him"

And finally

5. Should I ask or demand anything at this point? drop the affair, etc?

I'm thinking of meeting her tomorrow. Otherwise I'll be very busy for the rest of the week.

At the beginning one of the phases you will go through is obsessing. Recognize all this for what it is.

Do not act here.

Your main goal should be the OMW. Get your message to her.

Grief has 5 stages.

Since I just pop in here once in awhile I can read it a bit more detached than the others who are offering you good advice.

But what your doing here is called bargaining.

You need to stick to the long term plan. Bust the affair.

Do not contact her.

Keep working and finishing the current plan.

And accept grief for what it is. Work through it.

Stay strong.