Thanks Truegrit- I will likely move my thread over to MLC as at this point I think that's the best category for me...

I love your advice, ironically though your GAL-ing crushes me...my W started her horse business 2 years ago and took maybe 3 days off in 2 years...

I would have loved to have learned to ride...when I started showing true interest it was too late- and the excuses from WAW were hysterical : "I'm too busy." "I dont have a horse that can carry you (I weigh 187)" etc...the real reason was that OM1 was there and it would just be uncomfortable...

I get your point though and I do want to do something like a triathalon...I'm also waiting for more consistant weather so I can start swimming again.

I def own my part and failings- perhaps a bit too much. W believed it was a loveless M- I disagree, she was busy w/ her business and I failed to be a part of it.

The only thing that murders me on a daily basis is not having that chance to be sure that if those issues were addressed, would we have a great M?

This will be my last post here, I'll join you over in MLC.

Thanks all, have a great day


DARK