The only exposure that really counts here is the exposure to the OM's wife. THAT is the one that is going to tell us what is going to happen.
I believe that you need to find out if the OM's wife got your message before you talk to your wife. Something isn't right if she hasn't contacted you since Friday when you sent the information. You may have to follow up on that or find some way to see if she got your message. It doesn't seem that she did or you would have heard more from your wife.
