There is a lot going on here. Bible study for the both of you, I guarantee that is not a bad thing. Unfortunately, if she were "listening" to God she would be coming to you and her family and making peace before attempting to go before "him." Make peace with your brothers and sisters before you come to me.
Also she must confess, renounce, and repent for her sins. I do not want to be a bump in the road, but I find little faith in men and women, especially when she is in a "fog". To another point, it is clearly stated "God" hates divorce, it breaks up families and causes more issues than can be imagined. I do not know what else to say, except sit back, keep your inner peace. Sounds like you are "doing" all that you can and are on the right track for yourself. If she wants to get her life on track then "he" will help her. But as posted by another earlier he does not mess with "free-will".
As stated before, I know and have faith this will work out and he will make good out of anything bad. Hang in there, you sound better and more peaceful.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
