Questions about audience.

1. Should I do this in a public or private place?
2. If I reply today, would it be too soon? (she contacted me Saturday)
3. What would be the main objective of this? Her telling it all? The truth?
4. How to respond to this situations:

- "I didn't know how to tell you and you've made this really easy. I love him."
- "Why did you have to involve my family? You're treating me as a little girl! I'm an adult"
- "Actually he already left the wife and kids and is coming next weekend with me. My family knows this."
- " Just accept this is over, even if I drop this guy, I'm never going to go back with you after what you've done"

-"I don't know what to do, I do have feelings for him but never meant to hurt you. I'm confused . I know what I'm doing is wrong but can't help it. I love him"

And finally

5. Should I ask or demand anything at this point? drop the affair, etc?

I'm thinking of meeting her tomorrow. Otherwise I'll be very busy for the rest of the week.

Last edited by Fracesc; 03/29/10 08:11 AM.

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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