When I actually asked him outright "don't you understand WHY I can't trust you?" His reply was that he was 'mostly trustworthy". As if somehow the OW and his affair didn't count and should be overlooked.
Yes that's definitely what my WH thinks. He said that "But I never lied to you accept about that". Like it doesn't count !!!! (BTW he had an affair 20 yeas ago that he was hiding and lying about). To him lying and cheating and deserting his family and breaking my heart is all justifiable because he is in "love" and he couldn't help it.
About mortgaging the house. I think that what it will come to is that I will have to sell the house and pay out all of our joint debts (business and personal) and use the rest of the equity to buy a smaller home just in my name.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
