Hi girlfriend! Sorry to hear you are still embroiled in this mess. Let go or be dragged. It's long past time to just let go and fly on into your fabulous new life.
I'm good, trying to get divorce paperwork done, looking to buy a new house. My kids have suffered and I'll never get over the ex choosing to put them through this pain, but we will all survive it. My life, however, is so good. I can't believe how happy I am without the ex's negative energy in my life. I have great friends, I'm playing the drums in a rock band class (picture School of Rock for grownups), and my new boyfriend is yummy. Once I let go of the ex, my life just got better and better.