Need a Plan for My Marriage

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I am planning on exposing the infedility to the OMW next week. How should I go about this? How have the results been from doing this for both Spouse and other person's spouse for other members on DB? What should I expect from the people connected to the affair?

Is it worth it to do?

Please let me know your stories, so I at least know the pros and cons.

Thanks