Good advice, lodo, thanks. Just to be clear, all that about nerve and audacity and being an inflexible a**hole and the like - that was all stuff SHE said - I mean, really, can you possibly wrap your head around this? She's gone apes*t at the idea of spending Mother's Day as a mother. Ho - lee - sh - it. Her mind has wandered off the map. She's gone and got herself a head full of bad wiring. I had to laugh a second ago because I suddenly remembered this thing she said - how dare I go and drop Mother's Day on her like this? Now I've been to one World's Fair, a picnic, and a rodeo, and this is about the karazeeeiest stuff I've ever seen.