Db not working, MLC spouse pushing D

[Mila]

Hi Forever, yes I'm in a different time zone - West coast. I know I'm up late even for my time zone. Usually go to bed at about 2am and getup at 7am. Seems to be enough these days. I'm off of the sleeping pills I was on in the beginning of this nightmare.

My H will go to the store for supplies (which he always did) but will be gone all day, or sometimes for hours at a time.

Yeah mine was going for "runs" in the middle of work day and was often gone for more then 3 hours - little did I know that he was meeting with OW.

How to reply to that? He had a MLC and left me for his mistress?

When WH disappears for 2 weeks to see OW that's what I feel like saying to our clients that call for him.

"I refuse to talk about the elephant in the room, when the elephant is in the room."

you bad girl you...but it's funny

In our business I could be replaced easier then him...and yes it may come to that. I may need to find a job (after 20 years working for our company). First of all the business has been going down the hill in the past year - since his affair started and it may not survive if he continues on this path. Even if it survives I doesn't seem realistic that we could work together long term in our situation (OW).

Did your H ask you for a divorce or just a legal separation? Mine didn't ask for anything yet.

I'm supposed to have a meeting with him tomorrow morning, so we will see what that will bring

Keep posting...we are tough, we will get through this
(((hugs)))