oh yeah... he said he was miserable when he was with me and now he is not miserable anymore... how do I not believe that? who says that? how can I DB my brain out to get someone back who was miserable with me?i feel like a schizo... but i should just all together give up...
well of course he's not miserable - he's pushed his problem aside, living with mum and dad, living the single life --- yeah it's easy for him thesedays!! Who says that? Someone really behaving like a child. DON'T take it on. Don't give up - just stop these talk sessions where you allow him to spew up all this rubbish. Your ears don't need it & you certainly shouldn't process it. If you keep exposing yourself to this, you will end up doubting whether or not to continue fighting for your M. Remember it's all in the timing.
Originally Posted By: Babydoll
but yet two days ago when i told him I was not signing the D papers b/c i needed to focus on myself he understood and agreed we both need to focus on ourselves and the baby first...
An example of what worked!
I know you can do this Babydoll. You showed great strength before the divorce papers showed up. That was a bump in the road, but it wasn't fatal. You need to draw back from him now...
