How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Let me ask you all a question. I was sitting thinking about what has work and what has not up to this point and compiling a list.

I though about my public affection 180 were there was none on my part in the past. I remember just a little over a month ago we went a few places and were holding hands. It was a good time. The next day I pressured her by saying "how can I keep that ring on your finger?" And she told me it was over and she was being courteous and "co-existing" the day before. Then maybe a week or so later she was less willing to hold my hand. At one point I asked her "may I?" And took her hand. She had a look on her face as if she was bothered when I first took her hand and I asked "something bothering you, is this ok?" She responded " you never did this before"

Since then there has not been much of the same public affection but also since then a EA was confronted and she has opened up the line of communication more.

The question is... Would it be pursuit or pressure to try the hand holding again? Or is it something I will need to try and get a reaction? Is it too soon to try?