Need a Plan for My Marriage

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I think I blew it today. My wife said she was going to see a friend, and the kids said they wanted to say "hi," so I said I would walk with her to meet her friend and let the kids say "hi." We walked for a long ways until the kids became tired. She never received and call from her friend, and I think she was going to meet the OM. We did take a bus back home. Wife did not get off the elevator and went back to the car and left for 5 hours. I guess I should have just let her go without causing problems, but I am so sick of her lying and cheating. It is just a real difficult situation. I am not doing what I am suppose. She said she wants a divorce, and I do not know if she will or not. She said she just had to think, but I do not believe her for a second. Just had to get out my thoughts.

Thanks Sandie2. I guess I am not real good at DBing. I was mad about her coming home at 2:30 am with out a call this weekend on Saturday.

I have to do something. I am not going to just put up with this. I am going to read about boundaries tonight.