How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

OK I can think of many things around the home that need to get done, I will start. Its just I do not process the skill or know how to do some of these things but that could be a attribute to GAL by learning and doing rather than rely on someone else.

I did work out before this all happened and I have been in a slump since. I lost 10lbs over the past 9 weeks and I feel like I am deteriorating and as a result may be unattractive to her. And if (god forbid) she does leave I want to be in a better place physically.

When I would go hang out in the past inviting her along was not an option...I never even considered it. When I say go out I mean somewhere with a group of friends not 'a night on the town'. For the most part me and my W are home bodies and neither one of use consume alcohol so clubs, bars ect was not our thing. And when we did go out and do something it was always together (ALWAYS). So for me to go do the grocery shopping alone is new to me and different.

My W was not the only one who was impacted by my old negative self. I hurt and disrespected others close to me. I want to become a more positive person. I have a new outlook on life and it would indeed be so much better if my W would share it with me.