Mind,
when we discussed that issue I responded to her by saying " I understand why you would feel this way and I am sorry you feel this way." I continued by repeating that I understand why she feels that way and if in her heart she feels that she cannot forgive me and she wants to split then that is what we will do. I had appologised numerous times and had also asked her to forgive me numerous times.

I will say I have talked to my sister at length about this. She tells
me that it's just an excuse to justify her behaviour towards me. My sister tells me that my W was hinting to her a couple years ago that she sometimes felt that she just wanted to be alone. My sister wished she had paid closer attention to those comments. She was going through crap of her own.
My sister has gone over comments made by my W that now she had hoped that she picked up on it.

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)