Hi there TG! yes married for 13, together 15, 14months trying to get pregnant, finally get pregnant with assistance, then we move overseas, 3months apart during that, during which time he has a PA with old friend. Comes back 3 months ago, drops bomb, ILYBINILWY, "I never want to live with you again', 'No hope for us', 'I love OW', "I love this baby and want to be it's father', "I want to go back and live overseas forever"... etc etc. Definately a nervous breakdown. Loss of great job overseas, turning 40, leaving his country or origin, becoming a father (his father abandoned him at birth), etc etc. What's the diff between a MLC and a nervous breakdown??
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369