How do you do it? Hmmmm.

You are afaid of what?

Him running away? If you don't change your M will he run away again?

He has to extend his lease? Not your problem.

He can't or won't show up for this process? Wow! what great information to find out don't you think?

Why not quote him the steps above in your own words. That's what we're doing here. That's what we've been talking about.

It doesn't mean your M is over and that's what he hears then he's not showing up.

It seems to me you can't go wrong when you choose to do what we've been talking about. It gets you to the right place for YOU.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am