new information from W : NOW WHAT, pro's please .

[cesco]

Sandi, I love when you chim in..
Mindfull and Robx you too..

But yes, the verbage I used I expressed exactly how Rob had told me. It was a couple months ago so I didnt say it exactly on here now.

As for the sexual comments. I understand. Truthfully, I havent said much to her in that way. I know this will take time.

At this point I can honestly say that detaching myself from her is becoming easier. In fact I am starting to resent her. I feel that I cannot be to blame for the whole thing..
Here is my point to this.
W tells me that her feelings for me changed years ago. That we lost connection years ago.
So, to me the sexual incident really is something she uses against me. I have brought that up and she never has a comment after I bring it up that way...
I am not trying to minimize the hurt that I caused her but trying to not make it the reason for our situation..
Not sure if I explained very well..