More information then, We have had 2 years of counseling after her affair until we moved out of the area.
There was about a 40 day period where I pretty much rolled out the red carpet everyday for romance, flowers, candle light dinner, trying to find a babysitter for our own dates, then she started to dread going out with me alone.
After that I decided to back off, and things got a little better, but then the ice wall came up again. But since we moved, everything's all hugs and kisses again, but still nothing happening in the bedroom. She stays up until I decide to go to sleep on my own, even if its 1 in the morning.
Just the night I wrote this last blog I decided to sleep on the couch before I exploded because we finally went to sleep together, my son was asleep, but she took a shower first, with one of the louder toys and a locked door. Then afterwords she just went to do some laundry until late at night.
I really think sex would tie everything back together. All the pieces are here again, it's just not assembled. But you're right maybe I should be more romantic again. I haven't tried since we were all hugs and kisses again, before that I would get so discouraged. I'll go on a mission tomorrow and see if that's the case. Thanks.
