NEED HELP!

WAH has just emailed. It's a more open email than usual and more revealing of his emotions.

He begins by hoping me and the baby are well as we are the most important people right now.

He is giving me more job hunting updates, expressing he is now very worried he hasn't has success, and telling me what he's hoping to do about it.

Then he tells me he would like to see me and support me in the last weeks of my pregnancy but is afraid of it being acrimonious like the last time we met, and hurtful for both of us. Says it's 'paramount' my pregnancy is peaceful, restful and focused.
(HE MUST BE GETTING THESE LINES FROM PEOPLE WHO'VE TALKED TO ME.)

He also said if I want, he will attend more co-parenting counseling.

DO I reply?
DO I wait a bit?
WHAT do I say?

It seems NC and one short email reply from me recently has pushed him to WORK HARDER. I don't want to blow this!!!

Sandi, Puppy, Allen.. where are you guys??


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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