Kalni - It's a done deal in my mind. I just need to hit send. And, I'm paying w/it w/our money, not anything from my shopping budget! LoL Thanks for the support. I know you know.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
(((Mind))) You need to know. I get it. Then, you know what you are dealing with and you can make your choices from there. It is amazing how empowered you feel when you take control.
I have no doubt you will kick a$& and then some my friend!
Wish I had some of you girls close by... I don't have anyone IRL that knows anything about our M issues. I could use an understanding hand to hold while I look at some of this stuff!
But, I got it. Seriously.
Just read your thread while I was cooking dinner. Now, you know... you're going to get smacked! You didn't need to go through all of that!!! HUGS, friend! I'd be JUST LIKE YOU, if I ever got to Piecing!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Just read your thread while I was cooking dinner. Now, you know... you're going to get smacked! You didn't need to go through all of that!!! HUGS, friend! I'd be JUST LIKE YOU, if I ever got to Piecing!
Heehee... can always count on you for a good smack when needed!
I'm holding your hand.... we all are. You are already more than strong enough and you are gonna do this!
Mind, just as another frame of reference I'm on my blackberry all the time, just out of habbit I'll check it whenever I get a moment. I usually have emails from the servers/systems, my team etc. So I guess the question is, is he like that usually? or is this something new?
I guess it doesn't matter because sounds like you're going to get the phone records to find out.
From what you'd previously written about him going over to the superitendant guy etc it sounded to me like he was still very much invested in you and I hope that's true. Keeping my fingers crossed for you guys. HUGS mind!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
MF. You have got such the will to fight and a positive mind that I am convinced that you will conquer this. You r such a strong person. I am not much for giving advice because what I do seems to be week in nature. The support here has been awesome and I thank u.
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
Find out, it kills you to know if you find out the worst, but you after you pick yourself up, you get YOUR life back through being able to take charge of what you choose to do with it.
Thanks for the support. I know you know.
I don't have anyone IRL that knows anything about our M issues. I could use an understanding hand to hold while I look at some of this stuff! 