Wants to kiss me, but I'm thinking, why? I mean, has ANYTHING changed?
So I ask him what he wants to say.
He asks "where was I this weekend?" (to which I just say doing stuff).
He asks me to come to his city to do something (like a date) and I tell him that would be OK but we'd have to plan it because I have the kids and work and can't just leave last minute. And it would have to be an actual date, not just a visit to his appartment!! He says he will think about it.
He says what is going on? And I say, I don't really know, it just seems like we are heading full-steam ahead towards D, and I don't understand what to do.
He says "D"? Who said anything about "D"?!!! This from a guy who's been to see 3 L's over 5 years, and has his current L communicating with my L over a sep agreement. WHAT?
Then he asks "what do I want from a relationship with someone else that I can't have with him " (for those of you not following the thread, he is the WAH, what I want is for him to come home!!!!)
Then he asks why I am not pursuing him, and I say because it is not in my nature to pursue men, he can pursue me if he is really interested.
I said something along the lines that I know he has a lot going on at the moment, and that he has a lot to think about in his life, and that he has to decide what he wants to do.
Then he gets angry, says that I (ME?) seem to have no trouble moving on from him, and he will be in touch (in a legal threatening sort of voice).
He marches to his car, drives away.
OK, what is that? Did I say something right? Did I say anything wrong?
How come it went from him trying to kiss me to anger and accusations?????
