..not sure if this was the right thing to do but I sent a text.
"I haven't given u a hard time about answering ur phone since uve been gone or returning text msgs in a timely manner. In the past I have due to ur affair and the lying that came with it. Since affair ended..I will not accept this immaturity. Time for mutual respect and an adult relationship. Don't u think?"

I am sure I won't get a response because he is proving a point...or because he is angry..or whatever other excuse he can come up with. Why am I trying to save my M?