I've started reading "Not Just Friends", wow it's like it was written about my H!

Had a pretty good day today. I had my friend take my kids home to my H so that I didn't have to see him (-: She didn't see him either, just made sure he was home when the kids went it. She is so mad at him, she doesn't want anything to do with him either.

I'm not sure how to handle telling my H that I've decided I do want to keep the house. I've thought about just waiting until the weekend after next when I will have the kids again. He will be out of town for 4 days over that weekend. So I will be staying at the house. When he gets home, I thought about telling him that I decided to stay, and not leave. Any suggestions on how I should handle this one? By the way, my H has said several times that he wants me to keep the house.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10