How do I own up to things though that brought us to this point? In the beginning he was telling me how I was to easy on the kids and things and I agreed with him and said that I realized I was.
But just on the 17th he was saying things like "I heard things about you." I know we aren't suppose to defend ourselves and I think I messed up there too. I don't know if people are making things up and telling him things or it was to see my reaction. And I came right out and defended myself like a fool. Told him I haven't even gone out on a date or anything since the separation. How do I show him changes in me when he doesn't come around? He makes fun of me because of me going to church now and so on.
And you know about the lies already. He has told people that I cheated and thats why he left which is no way true. But I think he honestly believes it. He thinks I cheated on him since we were dating. How do I get that out of his head? It is NO where true! He use to say when we were together that the past is the past and now he throws things up to my face about the past. Is it your H or you W that is going through MLC? Are you together or apart?
