I think puppy wins the prize for the most pathetic OM with the pimply faced freak. Hands down.

Yes..H said he is finished with her..but is H really finished with her? Finished to me means NO CONTACT. He responded to her email regarding her resignation. That is contact. I think he should of ignored her.

Yes..H is sharing emails with me..Yes..H is sharing text messages with me..But why the frick are there still emails and texts from her???? Why does she still feel like it is OK to contact him? When will she crawl out of my life and back into that dark hole she originated from.

I know I need to worry about myself and not give her any more time than she already has taken from me. But this is a less than ideal foundation if my H want to work on his M..which he says he does.

I am not getting overly excited about anything and I don't think that we are in a better spot now than several weeks ago. We have made very small baby steps. My H is contacting me more frequently than weeks past. I get a call this morning asking me "do I like frappuccinos?"...umm OK??!! So the content needs a bit of work.

I just busted my pants eating at my parents house. My mother would agree food = love. She cooks a feast almost every Sunday. Cooking is her life. I think I put on all the weight that I have lost during this ordeal. TG- hope your gumbo was a success.