i thought you were the one who was unsure you wanted to stay?
This is one thing I could never get through my head. She tells me that I'm the one leaving, but she keeps doing things like this. You know, she has now asked for a separation 7x in 3 months, 3x of which have been after I discovered love for her.
Does anyone think I should go into the mediation as I would if I wanted a D? If I thought she could love me without conditions, and take as an acceptable "loss" the fact we will continue to misunderstand each other from time to time, I would've reconciled already. I don't want to push myself further away (or her).