I get what you are saying. I try not to get sucked into his drama but it is so hard. Especially when D13 comes home from a visit with him.
Just today she came home and told me she was helping him put clothes away and found a box of condems unopened and that she was on his computer and there was porn on there.
She was asking so many questions, and as it hurt me deeply I had to explain that her dad is ill and that as far as I know he isn't with anyone because she is afraid of him going to a different woman.
I know they lie like you wouldn't believe but he just told me when we were together that he is out of practice because the last time he was with a woman was me in Nov. but he did tell me about the porn. Is this normal? I have so many questions for this site and for all of you wonderful people.
I read on posts that they are hurting inside deeply and put on masks to make it look like they are happy. Is that true? I just don't get all of the stuff that goes on with a MLC?
He knows God love her that she has a big mouth and tells him stuff and me stuff. So I don't know if this is to push my buttons or to get me to contact him or just to upset me because he knows at least I think he knows I'm standing for our M.
How do I respond to him about the dating thing not being a good idea? Do I agree with him?
