I have taken Robx take on it and told her specifically that if she feels that those issue's are the reason for us not being together, then I accept that and lets move on. I have told her that. This conversation has not come up since.
Cesco - I'm sorry, I have to ask you this, at the risk of magnifying the situation within your M, BUT... How did you word this conversation? Did you ask her, and was it a give and take conversation, OR did you tell her I've apologized, asked for your forgiveness, so forever hold your peace if you're still here...? Did she accept your apology, and agree to stay? I ask because your wording sounds like you TOLD her this stuff, and didn't discuss and request forgiveness, etc... Could just be your wording here!!!
Glad you're seeing an IC, and glad you're feeling stronger!
Last edited by mindfull; 03/28/1011:03 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
