new information from W : NOW WHAT, pro's please .

[cesco]

Steve,
re your comments, are you telling me that I will never have a future with her due to my actions of the past?
Sandi and Robx have indicated that she probably brought those were up as excuses. She is hurting from some of that, dont get me wrong, but I have admitted to fault, and I was totally wrong. When you say I "sexually abused" her you make is sound so much worse.. It wasnt like that at all.
I have asked her for forgiveness long ago. I cant do much more than that.
I have taken Robx take on it and told her specifically that if she feels that those issue's are the reason for us not being together, then I accept that and lets move on. I have told her that. This conversation has not come up since.

sandi, mr Bond and Talia, yes.. Each day gets better at letting go... Logic does not work, I agree.

Just a furthur up date for today.
I read a messages on her phone today. Snooping I guess.
One of her "male" friends from work,that I believe has been all over my wife. Nothing confirmed though.
Has indicated to my W that his wife told him that she was having an affair.. HOW IRONIC IS THAT!!>... i WAS SOOOOOOO happy because my W reponse to him was that she tried to tell him to talk to his friends and take care of his kids..
I hope he tells my W how his life is now ruined because of this.... I know I shouldnt be happy, but who cares.. He deserves it. I know he has hit on my wife and she confirmed that to me too.. He has got to be the ugliest guy I have ever seen.. He looks like ET!!...

I am much better today and much stronger. I am walking around home like I just dont care. Just working with my kids.
For the W, I pay very little attention..
Thank you for always chiming in.. Means alot. Its tough as you all know and each and every day get better.