Since my W is not in an A, what are some of the things she might have trouble letting go of and also have trouble facing? I think you mentioned coming back to reality as one thing, any others? What helps a W come out of her fog when there isn't another man?
You may need to get first hand advice from Greek about that, since I did have an EA. But for now, I would think she would have to let go of any dreams of a better life without you, and want to spend the rest of her days with you. IDK, but I'd think a WAW who was not in an A would not go through some things one in an A would do. She obviously would not have to experience a grieving process. I don't know if they experience a level of "fog" that one in an A does since their mind is not clouded with all the OM stuff. I simply do not know and perhaps a WAW not in an A would not know how to gauge the level of fog either.
I would think that she would have to see you as being more attractive in order to come back.....whereas when in an A, it is sometime just the right thing to do. That is what my decision was based on....it was just the right thing to do but I was certainly not attracted to H.
Other things would be considered, but as I said, check with Greek b/c I would simply be guessing on a lot of what I've not experienced personally.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
