I am not wondering! I think most of us know too well the "change" WS's go through in the "fog". I am right with you in our sitches, maybe a bit ahead of you on the timeline. We all love and are deeply attached to our WS's, at least who they were. It is difficult to understand what has happened to them. They look like our S. Sometimes, they even act and sound like our S. But their ability to make sense and reason is GONE!
Surviving an affair by Harley. Sue is his example WS. His ideas towards affair busting are very similar to DBing. His Plan A is a bit too "doormatty" for me, but being the better option and 180ing during this time is a good attitude so that when WS does leave, they leave with a positive impression of you. On that note, stay calm, polite, and truth dart her! If she does leave, cut her phones and all financial benefit of your M.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread