I dunno Sandi, i encouraged Eyeore to handle his problem the same way - cut off the internet and phone.
Its a hollow boundary if you leave path open to violate it... he's pratically inviting it. These people are ADDICTED... setting down a boundary and expecting them to be rational isn't realistic I dont' think.
If your children were using the internet to view pornography I would think a parent would do more than simply tell them to stop, they would shut the access DOWN.
This is why we have a police force in addition to a legal system... the police show people that the gov't MEANS BUSINESS when they lay down the law.
Laying down a law and not policing it hardly is effective or convincing that you are serious is it?
