A question - a friend from church suggested that I enforce the boundary by blocking the phones rather than kicking her out under the theory that it would be easier to keep her than to get her back.
I don't see that as an example of enforcing a boundary. You lay down the boundary and then it is up to her to abide by that boundary.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
