If your wife is using anything from your home to contact OM you cut it off.

Household phone, Internet access etc.. you lock him out.

She will complain.

Just tell her

I will not put our households finances towoards you actively trying to DESTROY our marriage and HURT our chidlren.

OUR finances are for our CHILDREN. This house is to support THEM NOT to support YOUR CHEATING.

I refuse to support an affair in our home, financially or emotionally - no cheating.. it will NOT be supported.

Household finances are for healthy endeavors.

No drugs, no alcohol, no gambling, no pornography, no infidelity... NONE of these will be financed by this household.. PERIOD.


Last edited by Allen A; 03/28/10 09:43 PM.