My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

Sandi, thank you. I'm paying close attention. I don't want to screw it up again like I did the first time - although even then they at least did stop seeing other so much.

A question - a friend from church suggested that I enforce the boundary by blocking the phones rather than kicking her out under the theory that it would be easier to keep her than to get her back. I said that I'd post it on the forum to see what you guys thought about that. So what do you think?

I'm waiting to see if she makes any calls to the OM. That's my sign that I need to do something to enforce my boundary that I set yesterday.

You are wondering why I would want to share my life with a person like this, and that is very understandable. I have probably made her look pretty bad on this forum. But before the affair started, she was the model wife - a good mother, a great cook, beautiful, and she always tried to please me which I now see that I often took for granted. I also want what's best for the kids and they love us both dearly. It is also my conviction as a Christian that I should not divorce my wife - except perhaps for marital unfaithfulness. So if it gets to be a physical affair, I suppose at that point I would seriously consider it.

And thanks WhatNow for your input too - Who was Sue from Harley's SAA? I'd love to read about it.