Q: I plan on exposing to OWH and telling him about this board. Good idea? The idea is that if he does the right things, she will be lured to him rather than a quick D. DH already knows about his board, he posted here, so it may not get back to them and if it does, may not matter. (I'm already dead, right?)
Q2: Should I tell OW about his repeated affairs with backup or do you think it will fall on deaf ears? ('we're different than the others') Will it hurt if I try and fail? Which is better, to try or just tell her I know and move on?
